After talking to a good friend and avid-OKC user, she's shared her secret/not-so-secret strategy on how to use OKC like a boss without completely losing your sanity.
Here are her suggestions:
"when i'm bored, look through my matches for people with high match percentages who are also attractive
click
look at pictures
if attractive
read profile
if sufficiently interested, let them know i saw their profile (huzzah a-list!)
and star them to four
with a-list, look at the people who "like" me (rate me 4+ stars). decide if they're worth "liking" back
delete messages from people who i give no fucks about
only keep messages i might be interested in answering
answer when i fucking feel like it
if the conversation doesn't steer towards finding a time/place to meet relatively quickly
let it fade out
i ain't got no time for pen pals"
Bitch got her shit on POINT!
But seriously, that's some solid advice because I can't message every single dude who says anything ever to me. That would be ridiculous and would make my life a living hell.
But seriously, that's some solid advice because I can't message every single dude who says anything ever to me. That would be ridiculous and would make my life a living hell.
I don't even care about dating that much, to be honest.
I just really needed a new hobby (after almost setting my apartment on fire yesterday, I realized I should probably give up cooking/baking) and a reason to blog.
So, Babs, what do you do with your spare time? What are your hobbies?
As my good friend answered for me: "crafting and Tinder and wine". LOLZ.
(Also, I would like to note that I have mentioned wine in every single post so far, but I PROMISE I am not an alcoholic...that I know of...)
I just really needed a new hobby (after almost setting my apartment on fire yesterday, I realized I should probably give up cooking/baking) and a reason to blog.
So, Babs, what do you do with your spare time? What are your hobbies?
As my good friend answered for me: "crafting and Tinder and wine". LOLZ.
(Also, I would like to note that I have mentioned wine in every single post so far, but I PROMISE I am not an alcoholic...that I know of...)
Also some advice for any dudes who want to date using the internet (or anyone of any gender who wants to date ever)...
You will suck at dating if you have 2 or more of these qualities:
1) Are not attractive (this one's subjective and beauty comes in all shapes and size. But put a little effort in at least. Slash since it's subjective, I will not message you back, nor should you message me if there is no attraction)
You will suck at dating if you have 2 or more of these qualities:
1) Are not attractive (this one's subjective and beauty comes in all shapes and size. But put a little effort in at least. Slash since it's subjective, I will not message you back, nor should you message me if there is no attraction)
2) Are uninteresting and have a super lame profile (again, effort!)
3) Send a vague message (aka: "Hey, what's up")
Again, TRYING seems to be the key here. So advice to anyone ever: use your effort and try, you asshole.
Again, TRYING seems to be the key here. So advice to anyone ever: use your effort and try, you asshole.
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